(October 23, 2010 at 6:02 pm)Rayaan Wrote:(October 23, 2010 at 5:40 pm)Ace Wrote: Why wait to be married which costs a bundle just to have a little intimate fun?
Because having sex randomly with anyone you feel like is something that can cause problems to in the future when they do get married (especially for females). If everyone did this, then I think relationships would be in a lot more chaos and confusion. The children that you gave birth to will not know who their father or mother was and this can possibly affect them in the future. So, I think it's better to first get married and only then have sex. It avoids a lot of confusion because this way marriage becomes a contract for having sex.
You are aware of the high divorce rate right? That little contract is a piece of shit. It's all about the individual and his/her responsibility, and some people don't have the need to get married. Your ignoring a lot of variables; perhaps you should widen your gaze.
