(September 5, 2015 at 1:50 pm)Cecelia Wrote:(September 5, 2015 at 4:49 am)downbeatplumb Wrote: My wife has taken to wearing bathing suits that would have been considered modest in the Victorian era. Three kids has ruined her body according to her, (it hasn't).
Make sure you let her know that! I have twins and triplets, and afterward I lost the weight pretty fast. A lot of people were like "Oh my god, you are so lucky you can lose the weight so quick!" But for a long time I still felt like I hadn't lost any weight at all. It took a lot of reassuring before I felt like myself again.
Back on the subject of Hell, though. I stopped believing in god when it started interfering with my enjoyment of life. The fear of hell can be so restricting. You follow the laws of god, and are worried every time you step out of line. Once i let go of that fear, I was able to enjoy myself much more.
Apparently my opinion doesn't count because I love her so am blinded to the devastation the kids wrought.
You can fix ignorance, you can't fix stupid.
Tinkety Tonk and down with the Nazis.
