Ok, here's a question- How do you feel about dating skinny men?
I'll go ahead and explain why I ask so there isn't a question about my intent. I'm also not going to qualify a lot of what I say, just to move things along. I hope I don't inadvertently sound too insensitive.
I read a study -maybe that's too strong a word- I read a thing that called itself a study without my following up on it that said relationships where the woman is bigger than the man are less likely to succeed. This was a while ago, but I recently brought it up to my ex (We're friends and often talk about our missteps and do a lot of what-iffing, so it wasn't me being weird). I brought it up because the men she has dated after me were progressively larger. She's with a really nice guy now who's probably 200+ pounds (and uglier than sin). Super nice guy though. Anyhow, I mentioned the trend and asked if she was uncomfortable when she was with me because I am skinny. The way I worded it was "I was too skinny for you." She responded with "No, but I always felt too big." I explained that that made me feel like I was too skinny, to which she said "I never thought about it like that." I think it kind of opened her eyes a little in that respect. This is just one aspect of our failed relationship, of course, but it was one that we recently talked about, and now here's this thread, so I thought I'd ask.
What do you think? Is there something to this?
I'll go ahead and explain why I ask so there isn't a question about my intent. I'm also not going to qualify a lot of what I say, just to move things along. I hope I don't inadvertently sound too insensitive.
I read a study -maybe that's too strong a word- I read a thing that called itself a study without my following up on it that said relationships where the woman is bigger than the man are less likely to succeed. This was a while ago, but I recently brought it up to my ex (We're friends and often talk about our missteps and do a lot of what-iffing, so it wasn't me being weird). I brought it up because the men she has dated after me were progressively larger. She's with a really nice guy now who's probably 200+ pounds (and uglier than sin). Super nice guy though. Anyhow, I mentioned the trend and asked if she was uncomfortable when she was with me because I am skinny. The way I worded it was "I was too skinny for you." She responded with "No, but I always felt too big." I explained that that made me feel like I was too skinny, to which she said "I never thought about it like that." I think it kind of opened her eyes a little in that respect. This is just one aspect of our failed relationship, of course, but it was one that we recently talked about, and now here's this thread, so I thought I'd ask.
What do you think? Is there something to this?
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
