I think online dating services are made to order for gays and lesbians. If you are only 2% of the population, a little networking help is in order. I remember reading about some phone apps that will tell who, and give pictures of the gay men in your immediate vicinity too. How useful that is will vary depending on the number of other people using the app, but it sure couldn't hurt.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.