(December 24, 2015 at 12:26 pm)Strider Wrote:(December 24, 2015 at 12:20 pm)Brakeman Wrote: Horseshit!
You have no impericle evidence of any of your claims, and as one of your "outliers" I am still aroused by the same images of beautiful women that I was when I was 16. Porn has never had any detrimental effect on my life. I have a wonderful wife that likes sex just as much as me and we've never had any issues over the past 21 years.
You are simply and completely wrong.
Completely wrong? Hardly.
Read all of the articles I provided a link for in my first post in this thread. There is indeed evidence and some research supporting my claims that pornography has ill effects. Also, go online and search for groups of people trying to kick porn and read their stories. I'll take hundreds and hundreds of different people's firsthand experiences (all very similar) as evidence any day.
As I said, there are outliers, as is apparently your case.
Yes, completely wrong. You are aware of the religions that fear women's sexuality and freedom from male possession so much that they condemn pornography. You are aware that this global bias would be a bitch to design a test around too right?
So lets get to the mechanics of your claims.
You say porn desensitizes. Why purpose does mental sexual sensitivity play in a healthy relationship with a partner? Are you saying that it prevents premature ejaculation? Are you claiming that it reduces sex demands on one's partner? How much sex is required in a relationship? These are unanswerable questions because the relationship isn't based upon just sex. If I look at hundreds of naked beautifully photoshopped girls and then go to bed with my wife, I didn't just discover that my wife is not the sexiest woman on the planet. I knew that long before the internet. I knew before I married her that she had a flat butt and a "B" cup. I couldn't marry the perfect body woman if she existed, and I didn't try. I loved her for who she was and is and no amount of porn will affect that. It is the relationships that fail and fail often, that generates the anecdotal storied of porn's sinful side affects, not the other way around.
If relationships are really built upon sex then divorces should be pretty much universal as people age.
Sex is something you do not who you are. A relationship is not built upon sex and reproduction as it was during the bronze age. If you are in a great relationship you will also usually like the sex in that relationship. If your wife is unhappy that you speend too much time looking at porn then she's also unhappy that you spend too much time on-line yelling at theists.
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