Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!

[Mermaid]

However, she and a lot of people need to be a hell of a lot smarter about recognizing and mitigating risk.  Getting into a shower with a drunk stranger and kissing them is an incredibly risky string of behavior.  And while it doesn't justify her rape, nor make it inevitable, it most certainly increases the likelihood of it happening.

This is true but when someone has been raped, the fact that someone engaged in a risky behavior is not the major issue, the major issue is that someone has been raped and the rapist needs to be locked away because they're dangerous.

The first place people go is to try to find a way to blame the victim. Invariably.
This is a very large reason rape is one of the most under-reported crimes.