(January 10, 2016 at 1:41 pm)Chad32 Wrote: You decided to get intimate with a drunk person, and are upset that he didn't stop at the point you wanted to stop. Now I know what he did was wrong, but what she did was also wrong. Rape is not ok, but you should also not put yourself in that kind of position if you aren't planning to go all the way. If you don't want to have sex, don't get naked and start kissing someone. especially someone who is drunk.
Now if a woman just happens to be walking down the street in a revealing outfit, and she gets jumped and raped, I put full blame on the rapists. But there's a difference between a poor innocent victim going about their day, and getting raped, and someone who decided she wants to get naked and kiss a drunk guy, and expecting him to know when to stop.
getting run over by a car is a horrible thing, but if you were playing in the street when it happened it's a little bit your fault. Context is important.
This.
Rape is always wrong, violating someone is always wrong, but don't trust the other person to always look out for your well being and safety. The world can be dangerous, and you have to protect yourself and be very cautious of who you spend time alone with.