The story seems to be that a woman took a trip to south Africa, a guy was making advances on her who she rejected and who seemed drunk and then she accepted to join this person for a shower, he then forced her to her knees and then raped her til she passed out and so on.
I don't really see any complicated nuances to this story. If the guy raped her then he raped her, I don't see how anyone will find proof of it since they were alone together, unless she has significant injuries and can prove he caused them.
No one should be blaming her but I don't think it's unreasonable to give her the advice that she should be more careful in future.
She was in the rape capital of the world, and accepted an invitation to go shower with a drunk guy who was making advances on her.
It just seems slightly strange to me that she is an activist against rape, I would have thought with knowing about rape and being so conscious of it happening she would have noticed the position she was putting herself in.
I think if anyone here would have been on the phone to her while this was happening, pretty much 100% of us would have said "No, that's a really bad idea to go join a guy who's making advances on you in a shower, unless you do want to have sex with him."
I don't really see any complicated nuances to this story. If the guy raped her then he raped her, I don't see how anyone will find proof of it since they were alone together, unless she has significant injuries and can prove he caused them.
No one should be blaming her but I don't think it's unreasonable to give her the advice that she should be more careful in future.
She was in the rape capital of the world, and accepted an invitation to go shower with a drunk guy who was making advances on her.
It just seems slightly strange to me that she is an activist against rape, I would have thought with knowing about rape and being so conscious of it happening she would have noticed the position she was putting herself in.
I think if anyone here would have been on the phone to her while this was happening, pretty much 100% of us would have said "No, that's a really bad idea to go join a guy who's making advances on you in a shower, unless you do want to have sex with him."
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
