(January 10, 2016 at 6:42 pm)Chad32 Wrote:(January 10, 2016 at 6:16 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I disagree with this entirely.
A woman would have every right to "be upset" about a man not stopping when she wanted him to.
It's not quite the easiest thing to just stop when you're drunk, horny, and in the middle of something. Like I said, what he did was wrong, but you shoudln't start something unless you plan to finish. don't pull a gun unless you plan to shoot. Hormones are a powerful thing. That's why sex is such a basic part of life. It's wrong, but when you're jacked up on chemicals you're nt really in your right mind at the moment. The best time to say no is in the beginning. Not in the middle. Given that they were naked in the shower, and kissing, I'd say the beginning had come and gone.
He deserves jail. She deserves a lecture so this doesn't happen again.
Lecturing someone when they're already down does sound a bit harsh, don't you think? I mean, how exactly would I lecture someone who just got raped so that she doesn't get raped again? It seems no matter how I put it, it's just going to harm her and reinforce the thought that perhaps she was partly to blame for the rape even if I don't mean it that way.