CL, if I was a Muslim, and male and said to you "You have to cover your face for me, trust me, it will make me happy, and you too".
Would you simply go "Ok, sure"?
Many humans HAVE and do join clubs just to fit in, and yes, it can create a "happiness", but when they do that most of the time it is just to fit in, it isn't based on any real sense of self. The type of "happiness" his well intended church goers and he falls for, is about placating the church, not basing it on any pragmatic understanding of human behavior.
Would you simply go "Ok, sure"?
Many humans HAVE and do join clubs just to fit in, and yes, it can create a "happiness", but when they do that most of the time it is just to fit in, it isn't based on any real sense of self. The type of "happiness" his well intended church goers and he falls for, is about placating the church, not basing it on any pragmatic understanding of human behavior.