Gay, Catholic and Doing Fine

[athrock]

What a terrible fucking god to worship that wants to control who people have sex with.  I don't think most religious people understand that the god they worship says a lot about them.  I wouldn't be caught dead worshiping such a god.  Especially since I have a daughter who is a lesbian.  Fuck them.  My daughter's fucking perfect.

Agreed. And again, this bullshit about condemning gays, while pretending to love them, is not real love.

As I said before, risky sexual behavior is not a patent owned by gays. Heterosexual teens can end up with unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases and can and do have oral and anal sex without condoms, which is risky. Even being married won't prevent that. We even know now that semen contains the HPV virus which can cause cancer. 

Risky behavior is about hormones and or a result of prior abuse, not someone's sexuality. And the only way to reduce those risks is understanding HOW your body works in a scientific sense, what the risks are, and how to reduce them. 

There certainly ARE lagit reasons to refrain from sex, and none of them are explained by an old comic book.

This is flawed reasoning.

If I tell someone who is at risk of killing himself by excessive use of alcohol, am I pretending to love him?

If I tell someone who is at risk of offending God by gay sex, am I pretending to love him?

Sometimes, people need real love - the kind that requires the truth to be spoken - and not the syrupy, sentimental feelings that masquerades as love.