Gay, Catholic and Doing Fine

[Mister Agenda]

Keep in mind, I'm not saying that I, personally, would cheat on a partner.  I value honesty and openness - for both myself and a partner - too much to do something behind their back.  If I'm no longer interested/in love with some one, I tell them.  Period.

But, I really don't give a shit about what others do behind closed doors so long as consent is given and no harm is done.  I honestly don't understand this incessant need of some to control others' sexuality.  It's more than a bit bizarre to me.

It would be if "control" were really the issue. The REAL issue is bigger.

If God exists and if he has given us certain instructions about how we should and should not live, then it's reasonable that he might be offended if we ignore those instructions.

Then your first order of business is that there is a God, who issued those instructions, and that your copy of the instructions is the correct one. That's three big IFs to overcome before trying to convince someone that they ought to take your claims about what God wants seriously.