(April 15, 2011 at 4:32 pm)Rayaan Wrote: Wishy-washy? I guess so, but maybe it's not that bad to be wishy-washy especially when you're searching for the truth.
In my experience, it is always best to admit that you just do not know. Attempting to label yourself as one thing or the other and then changing your mind is simply being wishy-washy, which is best left for frivolous things like hair color and music taste. I'm not judging the poor guy. I pity his indecisiveness on the topic. Soul searching is tough. However, I think it would be in his best interest to simply say, "I do not know." Besides, it is not really a decision is it? It is more of a discovery.