People do deconvert but it's not something that you can force on someone else. There's a lot of pain in deconverting and the desire to do so has to come from the person. Whether it's because they can't cope with the cognitive dissonance, or it's just not satisfying their personal needs or they don't like the idea of lying to themselves etc. You'll need to figure out what your boyfriend's values are and this will help you figure out how to proceed. For example he might not care about whether he is believing a crock of shit but needs a sense of fellowship, identity or needs to make sense of the world etc.
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Help to de-convert! - by JojoP - August 3, 2016 at 7:29 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by pocaracas - August 3, 2016 at 7:47 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by I_am_not_mafia - August 3, 2016 at 7:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aroura - August 3, 2016 at 3:01 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by account_inactive - August 3, 2016 at 8:02 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Alex K - August 3, 2016 at 8:08 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by I_am_not_mafia - August 3, 2016 at 8:14 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 3, 2016 at 8:16 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 3, 2016 at 8:16 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Alex K - August 3, 2016 at 8:19 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aoi Magi - August 3, 2016 at 10:00 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 3, 2016 at 1:26 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by The Grand Nudger - August 3, 2016 at 11:40 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Minimalist - August 3, 2016 at 1:27 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by PETE_ROSE - August 3, 2016 at 1:59 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by brewer - August 3, 2016 at 3:11 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by PETE_ROSE - August 3, 2016 at 4:07 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 4, 2016 at 7:58 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 4, 2016 at 8:00 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 5, 2016 at 7:41 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 8:10 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 4, 2016 at 8:55 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 4, 2016 at 6:29 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Kosh - August 5, 2016 at 12:34 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by JojoP - August 5, 2016 at 7:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 5, 2016 at 8:09 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 8:55 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 8:57 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:05 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 5, 2016 at 9:28 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 5, 2016 at 11:21 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:06 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:07 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:18 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:19 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:29 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by purplepurpose - August 5, 2016 at 11:01 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 11:06 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by The Grand Nudger - August 5, 2016 at 3:38 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 6, 2016 at 3:25 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 5:33 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by pocaracas - August 6, 2016 at 6:23 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 6:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 6, 2016 at 6:30 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 6, 2016 at 9:04 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 9:38 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 10:30 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 10:56 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 11:07 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 11:13 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 6, 2016 at 10:33 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 6:35 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 7, 2016 at 10:38 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 7, 2016 at 7:38 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 7, 2016 at 1:00 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Bunburryist - August 10, 2016 at 12:28 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 10, 2016 at 1:39 am
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