RE: That Sex Thread
May 10, 2011 at 1:42 am
(This post was last modified: May 10, 2011 at 1:52 am by prayforme.)
(May 9, 2011 at 7:57 pm)Cinjin Cain Wrote: 1. Why have a long distance partner especially when that partner prefers an open relationship?
(but that's a pointless debate - so consider that a rhetorical)
2. You're not going to get a call back from that woman. If you think that you performed poorly ... trust me, you did. Don't bother. Have some self-respect, let it be what it was and move on. Everybody has an offnight here and there. Besides, if she thinks that you didn't give a shit, you'll probably have a better chance if you do ever happen to run into her again. (Don't ask me why, people want things that don't want them).
3. It's usually (there are exceptions) not a good idea to dip your pen in the company ink. I'd stay away from those work relationships.
4. For whatever reason I've personally had the best luck with women at public events. ie. Fairs, Biker Meets, Concerts, Fireworks as opposed to bars and clubs.
Just my humble opinion.
1. It's a temporary long distance deal. We both allow for some messing around, especially considering it will be a year before we're back together for any length of time. We believe that it is unrealistic to expect a hands off approach to others. We've been together since 2006, much of that time living with each other. It's a serious relationship that we have no intention of ending any time soon.
2. Yeah I figured that much. Doesn't hurt to try I suppose. What is most frustrating to me is all the little games men are expected to play (minus the booze) to get into a woman's pants. Men and women want sex and there is no getting around that. As long as folks are smart about it, why so much inhibition?.. religion aside for the moment.
3. I should say that I don't work with the same women every day. I work in a college town with quite a few part-time student workers (I graduated 2 years ago). It's not a long term career deal and I don't find the risk too high. I can definitely understand avoiding coworkers as a general rule, but would you consider this case an exception?
4. Yeah I need to get me a dog so I can walk around town with it.
I stay away from bars and clubs, usually. (May 10, 2011 at 1:05 am)Aerzia Saerules Arktuos Wrote: Monogamy can die in a fire, along with gasoline. Better yet, burn it in a lake of gasoline lit on fire.
Yeah, I agree. I would argue that very few people are fit for monogamous relationships. But, social pressures exist and folks get sucked in - only to deeply regret it soon after. Cheating would cease to be a problem as soon as folks acknowledge this.
