(August 20, 2016 at 6:53 pm)Nymphadora Wrote:(August 20, 2016 at 4:58 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: I feel for you, Nymph. But you're judging that man for his actions, not for his character. Don't conflate the two. People can have certain debilitating qualities to a degree and still be able to function normally. I guess what I'm saying is don't paint everyone you meet that reminds you even slightly of your ex with the same brush.Well you aren't privy to know what I know about this man. I was intimate with him for years and we have a child together. He has done horrendous things and he has behaved in such a way that is very questionable. Until you've walked in my shoes, please do not assume that I am judging him solely on his actions. You know nothing of the kind of "character" he is.
Again, I think we are on the same page, Nymphadora. I was in a previous marriage with pretty much the same person. It's a living hell that I don't wish on anyone. It's tough to understand it unless you've been there.
I don't believe you. Get over it.
