RE: How many people would you vouch for?
September 2, 2016 at 3:22 am
(This post was last modified: September 2, 2016 at 4:05 am by Thumpalumpacus.)
(September 2, 2016 at 3:05 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote:(September 1, 2016 at 7:03 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: The problem with this logic is that distance abets falsity when those folk are so inclined. And it happens.
Emphasis.
When you do truly come to know someone, you know they're not that way inclined.
I'd trust my bestie over anyone else every single time. Every single time.
The way I see it is online bestie friendships like me and Losty and Rob and Ivy are extremely strong evidence against the idea of online friendships not being as 'real' as so-called 'real life'.
Fair enough to those who haven't experienced it themselves it's not evidence, but it's sure as hell strong evidence to those who have experienced it.
Well, I wasn't saying they're not as real. What I was saying is that it's easier for someone to put something over when they have a couple of computers between you and them. I wasn't talking about your relationships in particular, just laying a general point.
I've been hurt by trusting too much online, and to be honest I think I've hurt others, because it's easier to type feelings than to live them.