(September 20, 2016 at 1:24 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote:(September 20, 2016 at 1:22 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: Except that I have the feeling that this was what Ark, the OP and even that ScienceAF kid were trying to say as well. They just didn't do it as eloquently as Tibs has.
Correct me if I'm wrong, those who I've attributed intentions to above.
If that is the case, then I owe them both an apology.
That's silly. You don't owe anyone an apology. If someone means something they should state it in an at least somewhat comprehensible way. The op, to me, was fine. Ark said things like "she may as well blame the sun for burning her skin". There's no amount of twisting that can make a statement like that acceptable in reference to a rape victim.