Victim Blaming?

[Tiberius]

^^^ This.  This was exactly what I was trying to communicate, but of course, you did a much clearer and succinct job of communicating it, Tibs.  [emoji6]   Thank you.

They just didn't do it as eloquently as Tibs has.

Debating on the Internet for years will do that for you. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that if you spend the time crafting an argument that covers every aspect of your point in detail whilst also being succinct and easy to understand, you'll find less people will misinterpret your words and will actually be able to focus on their objections.