I think men and women are the same. I think it just depends on the person.
People say men and women are different purely to justify promiscuity and cheating in men.
Evolutionary psychology says that men evolved to seek a variety of fertile, young, attractive women for sex. Fine.
Then women evolved to seek one wealthy, older, protective alpha male!!
But now if a woman seeks that out, she's accused of being a "gold digger" or a "sugar baby."
Women have been shamed out of their natural role.
At best, they have to use tame words like "secure," "financially stable," or even just "ambitious." At worst, they can't be remotely shallow or logistical and have to just love the person on the inside.
Meanwhile men can still use loaded words like "beautiful" or "gorgeous." They can be complete dogs (not saying all men are, just that they're allowed to be). They can say "no fatties" but you can't say "no losers" otherwise, people will say "who are you to call anyone a loser?"
So we should rise above evolution then and just split everything down the middle. 50-50. Both be breadwinners. Women learn to protect themselves. And let women have a variety of sexual partners and still be marriage material.
People say men and women are different purely to justify promiscuity and cheating in men.
Evolutionary psychology says that men evolved to seek a variety of fertile, young, attractive women for sex. Fine.
Then women evolved to seek one wealthy, older, protective alpha male!!
But now if a woman seeks that out, she's accused of being a "gold digger" or a "sugar baby."
Women have been shamed out of their natural role.
At best, they have to use tame words like "secure," "financially stable," or even just "ambitious." At worst, they can't be remotely shallow or logistical and have to just love the person on the inside.
Meanwhile men can still use loaded words like "beautiful" or "gorgeous." They can be complete dogs (not saying all men are, just that they're allowed to be). They can say "no fatties" but you can't say "no losers" otherwise, people will say "who are you to call anyone a loser?"
So we should rise above evolution then and just split everything down the middle. 50-50. Both be breadwinners. Women learn to protect themselves. And let women have a variety of sexual partners and still be marriage material.
