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Poll: If the teenaged child you'd raised to hold the same religious views as yourself came to you and said they no longer shared those beliefs, how would you handle it?
This poll is closed.
C'est la vie; win some, lose some.
3.57%
1 3.57%
I'd respect their choice whether or not to attend customary religious activities or the atheist equivalent. (Is there one? Skepticism day camp?)
25.00%
7 25.00%
I'd try my best to understand what had changed in their thinking and to understand their new beliefs.
28.57%
8 28.57%
I would do my best to reason with them to dissuade them from leaving the beliefs they were raised in.
14.29%
4 14.29%
While they are my dependents I'd still expect them to participate in the culture of the family, including religiously themed activities or their skepticism themed alternative - if there is one.
10.71%
3 10.71%
I would not accept their decision and forbid them to speak of it.
0%
0 0%
I would throw them out of the house and have nothing more to do with them.
3.57%
1 3.57%
If their beliefs did not change by the time they were independent, I would likely have less to do with them than I would otherwise.
0%
0 0%
I would end them. If God/reason can't have them, neither will Satan/a cult.
0%
0 0%
Fuck all polls in the ass .. yada, yada, yada.
14.29%
4 14.29%
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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?
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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?
Oh well, at my age I probably ask a lot of questions more than one.  (No snickering.) 

So if your teenaged kids (or future kids) were to tell you they just can't believe in God any more and didn't want to go with you to church, how would you respond?  Naturally there needs to be poll, but as always feel free to point out any inadequacies in its construction and provide your superior response in a comment.  You may choose as many as apply in addition to adding other responses in your comment.  And your answers will be public in order to subject us all to any due humiliation before our peers.

Rather than let the atheists off the hook, lets provide appropriately broad enough responses to allow atheists to also say how they'd respond if their teenaged kid decided to join one of your Christian cults denominations.  

I might well try to dissuade them from joining the cult too, but it would depend on what they had to say about their process. My own stepson has become quite woo, becoming a priest in a cult involving some Brazilian dude who calls himself "John of God". He was 30 before he went this way but I think our situation was complex. His biological dad was a magnet for woo while his mom and I are not. His mom even more so that I. She gets agitated around anything woo. I just get intrigued to understand how people can believe such things.

(December 5, 2016 at 3:57 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: My parents were only concerned for the fist 10 years or so. When they figured out I wouldn't go insane, wouldn't become a killer, or more weird than I all ready was, they let it go.

Well they sound very healthy to me.  You could have had it much worse.  I guess your failure to go insane was an instance of their having bred true.
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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us? - by Whateverist - December 5, 2016 at 3:55 pm

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