(December 5, 2016 at 8:49 pm)Rhizomorph13 Wrote:(December 5, 2016 at 3:16 pm)Shell B Wrote: I can perform minor repairs on cars, took welding in school, am pretty tall, swear like a trucker and have been called a lesbian more times than I can count.
In reference to the OP, I don't think it should be 50/50, either. I think it should be however the people in the relationship want it to be. Maybe a woman or man doesn't want to learn to protect themselves or sew a blanket. Who cares? I do a lot of more traditionally male things around our house. We are nowhere near 50/50 when it comes to gender roles. We just kind of do what comes naturally to us.
Yeah, you got it, you be you!
I hope you quoted me because you realized that I agree with you.
It would be better if we didn't use gender roles to fuck with each other. In my house we try to do what we are good at. I do much of the cooking, my wife hates cooking! I hate laundry so she does that. Quite often she will ask me to do the fixing stuff around the house and I ask her if a penis is required for the task. It is kind of a joke but we both realize how old fashioned we can be. "Penis task" is my way of saying, "You are only asking me to do this thing because of socially established norms. If you were really a feminist you would get the drill and hang that thing yourself." Whatever, as long as shit gets done.
Plus I dance as gracefully as a swan!
Yep! Totally agree with you and saw you agree with me too. It's fucking stupid that men and women are considered queer if they do things that are more traditionally assigned to the other role.