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meaningless affectionless sex with person/persons I don't care for
14.29%
3 14.29%
genuine, non sexual affection with someone I love and who loves me
57.14%
12 57.14%
Other (please explain)
28.57%
6 28.57%
Total 21 vote(s) 100%
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meaningless sex, or loving affection?
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RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection?
Before I vote..Why is it either or and why is there an "other" choice?

You can have meaningless sex with people/s and genuine affection from a loving partner (who may just be able to fulfill you sexually as well!), so, why not have both?

Quote:https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the...ionships-1

For people in monogamous relationships, it can be hard to imagine how polyamorists can nurture emotional connections with multiple partners simultaneously. In a society with too few rites of passage, “settling down” into a monogamous relationship is one of the few remaining hallmarks of maturity. Non-monogamy, in contrast, can appear immature, insincere, and insecure.

Having to face their insecurities, question their motives, and consider their own boundaries almost forces poly people to either get to know themselves, or leave the relationship style. Much like some serial-monogamists, those polys who neither come to grips with their issues nor leave the relationship style tend to go from one dramatic relationship explosion to the next.
If I were to create self aware beings knowing fully what they would do in their lifetimes, I sure wouldn't create a HELL for the majority of them to live in infinitely! That's not Love, that's sadistic. Therefore a truly loving god does not exist!

Quote:The sin is against an infinite being (God) unforgiven infinitely, therefore the punishment is infinite.

Dead wrong.  The actions of a finite being measured against an infinite one are infinitesimal and therefore merit infinitesimal punishment.

Quote:Some people deserve hell.

I say again:  No exceptions.  Punishment should be equal to the crime, not in excess of it.  As soon as the punishment is greater than the crime, the punisher is in the wrong.

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meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 9:52 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by brewer - December 8, 2016 at 9:56 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Iroscato - December 8, 2016 at 10:03 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 8, 2016 at 10:32 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:38 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 10:41 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:55 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 8, 2016 at 12:35 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 9:14 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 9, 2016 at 12:52 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by brewer - December 8, 2016 at 10:53 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by downbeatplumb - December 8, 2016 at 1:00 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 10:32 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:37 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Divinity - December 8, 2016 at 10:37 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Joods - December 8, 2016 at 10:40 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 10:53 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Longhorn - December 8, 2016 at 11:11 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 12:38 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Shell B - December 8, 2016 at 12:42 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 12:46 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 12:59 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 1:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by downbeatplumb - December 8, 2016 at 1:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mister Agenda - December 8, 2016 at 1:29 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Alex K - December 8, 2016 at 1:39 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by vorlon13 - December 8, 2016 at 2:45 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Chad32 - December 8, 2016 at 2:52 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Fake Messiah - December 8, 2016 at 4:26 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by AceBoogie - December 8, 2016 at 5:42 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by paulpablo - December 8, 2016 at 7:02 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by robvalue - December 8, 2016 at 10:07 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by AkiraTheViking - December 8, 2016 at 10:19 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:21 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by rado84 - December 9, 2016 at 1:09 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 20, 2016 at 9:31 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Thumpalumpacus - December 20, 2016 at 12:56 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by CapnAwesome - December 20, 2016 at 2:55 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Tonus - December 20, 2016 at 5:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Edwardo Piet - December 21, 2016 at 11:28 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Athene - December 21, 2016 at 1:40 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Edwardo Piet - December 21, 2016 at 1:56 pm

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