[split] The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)

[Mystical]

My break ended early along with my Mafia ban

Haha I came in here to say how I wished it was the 12th already! Whatever excitement I had at you returning has been dashed to little bts, however.

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I simply agreed with Shell, reiterated my own points about the posts I have seen, kept it short and to the point and your response is to dish out an angry wall of hate, telling me how full of shit I am among other things?

There was no hate

Seemed hateful to me. You flipfucked out.

You have gone on and on and on and on about how you can handle honesty and it's what you want from others.  Apparently not.

Oh it is absolutely what I want. I'm glad that you're honest with me

I... don't believe you.
And will in future implement a hands off approach.

The post contained in hide tags is precisely why, on numerous occasions, I have had to bite my tongue and refrain from commenting, because god forbid something be said that doesn't fall in line with your views. Proof is in the fact that this thread had to be split and another thread had to be closed because of your inability to let shit go. You don't want honesty. You don't want discussion. You want everything sugarcoated so your precious little feelings don't get hurt all the while, you want to be able to say whatever the fuck you want, without anyone else objecting or disagreeing with you.

I do want honesty and you don't have to bite your tongue when we disagree or I get emotional

I think you skipped the apology part and went straight to cuddling. Girls don't work like that.

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JFC. If you can dish it out, then you sure as hell should be adult enough to be able to take it when it gets served right back at you without resorting to making dozens of posts across other threads about how your feelings are hurt.

Yeah I am adult enough to take it and I can I can also make posts about my feelings being hurt when they're hurt.

Your unrepentance reiterates my future "hands off" approach. 

Was this harsh? Hell no and at this point, I don't fucking care if you think it is. It pales in comparison to the shit you threw at me.

I personally think that you were harsher than me. But that is absolutely fine and we can disagree on that no problem

Since you're an adult and can take it? I personally think you're full of shit. But that is absolutely fine and we can disagree on that no problem

If I've learned anything from what happened to me a month or so ago, it's that people are going to say whatever the hell they want to say here. And I needed to be okay with that because that particular person isn't in charge of my life. I am. No one else but me can make me feel a certain way and I needed to own that and just let that shit go. And that is the difference between you and me. You can't let shit go. I can. And have. You dont see me even so much as responding to the person i had issues with. I simply avoid their posts and go on with my day. You like to just keep poking the sleeping bear until it's had just enough to let you have it, then you wanna start in with all sorts of excuses for why you say the things you do, all the while seeking validation and reassurance from whomever will give it to you.

I'm glad that you have learned a lesson that is helpful to you  

Wish you could say the same.  

This is a god damned internet forum where people are free to say what they please without having to endure endless posts of attention seeking behavior from someone who is supposed to be an adult.

When I say that regardless of whether it hurts my feelings or not I still want honesty anyway I really do mean that regardless of whether it hurts my feelings or not I still want honesty anyway. 

Well honestly your entire post to Nymphadora was passive aggressive frippery.

And I'm tired of having to choose my words carefully for you so that you don't start 

playing the 'woe is me' game. Get help.

When you read my posts I think it's best that you either go by the words in my posts instead of how it comes across to you or just skip my posts altogether

I'll probably just skip your posts altogether. Honestly.