Discipline/lack of and atheism

[brewer]

I need someone to break stereotypes that atheists are far from disciplined due to their 'lack of faith but also fear in God' as an agent in governing individual discipline. Theists have often argued that atheists are corrupt, drug too much, do not keep their house tidy, do not eat proper food, party too much, have sex with multiple partners/commit to adultery whilst married with kids and slacken off excessively.

I would like to hear about atheists and how they do with self-discipline, self-regulation and responsibility as well as atheist parents who regulate discipline on their kids.

Regardless of the definition of atheism, I'd like to hear from you atheists as humans examples of discipline you do develop and regulate in yourselves (and if parents, on your children).

I am an atheist of moderate to at times rigorous discipline but I won't tell - I'd like to hear a substantial amount of examples from you before I may tell mine. I'm just sick of being ostracised, ridiculed and laughed at by many atheists for being 'too weird, religious and stuff' when I exhibit rigorous self-discipline and regulation and instead being told to 'loosen up' too frequently.

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But we can be any of those things, so can christians. My guess is that there are more christians that fit those descriptions than atheists. There lies the hypocrisy. 

Here is the deal, you get to be as weird as you want. As loose as you want. As disciplined as you want. That has nothing to do with a belief that god does not exist. 

As far as being accepted by your social circle, you'll need to find a balance between your desire for acceptance and your need for discipline.