My question to pro-choice supporters

[Astonished]

@Astonished, you do bring up good points, nobody is denying shitty parents exist and they have a hand in raising their kid in a shitty environment, without a proper role model, angry and I don't doubt it messes up them a lot either.

But what is your suggestion to do when a woman gets pregnant but the man don't want it? Having a parent that hates you for being born is worse than not having a parent that hates your existence. Just my opinion. (and safer. Especially for the kid. You never know what a person /parent that hates your existence will do to you..maybe they think you're the reason they're living a shitty life..that's a person you would rather not want around you ,especially as a guardian. Damn, people are so selfish these days)

Okay, I'm sick to fucking death of this. If both parties have not got absolutely every possible base covered before stuff goes into or comes out of their genitals, they both forfeit any and all rights to complain about anything and have to either put up with having a bastard kid or abort it. No half-measures where one of them gets to quietly slink away because they feel inconvenienced, how the fuck does the child have to feel when that happens? If someone gets knocked up, guess what, it's not just one person's fault, and unless your parents locked you in the damn basement for your first 18 years, you've got no fucking excuse not to know full well what the repercussions of your actions can, and more often than not, will be. "Oh, you're anti-abortion? Shit! I shouldn't have fucked you, especially not unprotected!" I cannot possibly sympathize with anyone who would ever have reason to utter that sentence. Since the man isn't fucking anchored to the kid for 10 months I don't see how it's the least bit unfair or unreasonable for them to have to undergo certain legal rigors like negotiating for or against custody (I'm not saying they have to be involved but they absolutely need to be positively identified, and able to be located at any and all times), negotiating a reasonable shared means of supporting the child (so if one or both of them aren't going to pull their weight they have months and months to get their fucking shit together), and obviously paternity testing to make sure he's actually the one culpable. I know that's probably unrealistic and a lot of work but what we've currently got happening is so much fucking worse. No child should have to see only one parent name on their birth certificate, period. It's really a fucking crying shame that so many people ignore the goddamn needs and feelings of the child in this whole thing. You'd think grown adults who are creating life and facing decisions of such magnitude would be more fucking mature than to be such big babies about it themselves. But if they're too stupid to go into it with the best possible compatibility and contingencies set, well, what can anyone expect.