a new atheist and marriage

[Brian37]

This right hear should prove that "atheist" merely means "off" having nothing to do with gender rolls or economics.

Sorry Mr Brewer. My mother grew up in the same generation as "buck up, be a man, just do it". I could give a shit less. She also was a mostly lifetime voting republican.

I do know however, if it were not for her, I would have been on the streets long ago.

It is not a matter of both partners should. That is bullshit. Both partners should know what they are getting into before the relationship. You tell me what would be wrong if a female paid the bills and the man was not equal in pay? 

You tell me what would be wrong with say a man staying home and raising the kids? You tell me what would be wrong if a woman made more than a man? I do know from my own experience BOTH my X wife and my mom supported me and I have no problem being in a subordinate roll rather than leadership.

A penis and vagina don't determine who does what. Consent, communication and ability do. 

I've seen lots of shitty men who claim to be in the role of husband or parent. I've seen lots of awesome women taking the lead too.

I know you could give shit shit less because you lack the ability, you're demonstrating that right now. Did you miss the "as abilities allow"? 

What makes you think my mother was not the major bread winner some years you gigantic ass? 

And I'm quite positive that you've never had to ability to take care of yourself. I don't think you are even now. 

Why would a woman purposefully ingest an element that causes neurological damage? hehehe

No asshole, you demonstrated your insecurity not me. I could give one shit less what you think of who has paid my bills. I think you do, and that there means you do buy into gender rolls.

Equal at best is not the same as equal. Equal is when you are willing to be lead by a female and supported by a female. I have been and I have no problem with that. I think you do. 

CONSENT is what matters, not plumbing. 

Your problem is you ARE assuming that every male in our species is inferior if they get help from a female.