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What exactly is a poe? Is it distinct from a troll or just a synonym? I've heard them mention it on the Atheist Experience show but had no idea what they were talking about, and forgot about it til now.

A Poe is someone who fakes certain beliefs or viewpoints in order to make people who genuinely hold those viewpoints look bad.  It comes from Poe's Law, which states that any parody of fundamentalism is impossible to distinguish from genuine fundamentalism, because there are actual people who hold those views.  That's why it's always a question of whether or not someone is a Poe.  For example, someone comes onto the forum, parroting the most oversimplified, ridiculous versions of theistic arguments.  Option 1) they honestly believe those arguments, option 2) they are faking it to make theists look bad.  Option 2 would be a Poe. The problem is that it's hard to tell the difference, since we've all met theists who actually believe those wacky things (I'm sure you can think of a handful on this forum alone).

A troll is just someone who wants to stir shit up without adding anything to a discussion, just being a douchebag.   They aren't mutually exclusive either. I'd say all Poes are trolls, but not all trolls are Poes.