(August 26, 2017 at 11:59 am)HeavenNorHell Wrote:
Hi, Forum, excitedpenguin here.
Remember me?
I got banned because my girlfriend lied about dating me to the admin of this very forum.
There's a bunch of things you don't know, besides that one. Let me tell my story. Make sure to read it at once, because this post will surely get removed, like so many times in the past.
I am going to talk about my personal relationship to a member of this forum. I will not reveal any personal information about them other than that. Seeing as that bullshit rule was made especially for me to begin with, it feels right to disrespect it after the mod abuse I received.
Losty is a moderator. Also my girlfriend from September of past year to July of last month. Yes, we finally broke up.
Losty is a liar. She dated me and shared our conversations with RobValue from this very forum, complaining to him about me. She didn't tell me anything about this until I told her to not discuss our relationship with anyone from the forum or anyone else. That was me asking for privacy within the confinements of our relationship. She told she had already told someone else about us. I forgave her.
The following months, up until my ban, it turns out all this hating I got on the forum, and from certain members in particular, was all Losty's doing. While she dated me she told everyone else she wasn't, and much else aside from that. At various points she claimed I was stalking her, stealing her facebook account, and so on.
Now, I don't have all the information about what happened, only Losty and the staff probably do, variably. What I do know is all I ever did was date this moderator of yours while she conspired against me, lied about me and ruined my reputation. She defamed me shamelessly and the staff covered it up. I am assumming the staff had a role to play in this, whatever good motives I might be ready to extend to them, because any time I offered to explain what happened or asked for an explanation in return for my ban in return they have invariably turned me down, ignored me or simply avoided me.
I did not get permabanned for anything I did in particular, certainly not the vague explanation that was given in my official ban statement posted by them in the relevant topic. I got it directly from Losty that Tiberius said in Staff area that I did something he could not stand for, and didn't want to go in further details. Now, seeing as he owns the site, I'm assumming that was him setting his foot down and everyone else followed. After all, even if I am innocent, as I am, who would possibly stand behind me, even if they believed in my innocence despite the smear campaign that was so viciously run against me, after the owner of the site set his foot down on the matter?
Of course I got banned. As for why, it's very simple. I had good reason to fear for Losty's safety for reasons I won't go into here, and I contacted Tiberius on Slack about it, asking him to either share her telephone number with me(it hadn't occured to me to ask for it from her before that, but I have in the meanwhile) or to at the very least call her himself so that he could make sure she was OK. What happened after that was he talked to her some days later after this cooled down, or maybe it was the next day, I'm not sure anymore, and she denied having talked to me and implied she hadn't been talking to me at all. After me telling Tibs and implying it here to everyone else that I was in fact dating her, this was all Tibs needed to ban me. If I had lied about this, I would ban myself for this kind of shit. But I didn't. She did date me and she was dating me at the time. She simply lied to everyone else about it, all of you included.
What should have happened here was either one of us, me or her, should have stopped dating each other if that was what we wanted. Instead we had a difficult relationship where she lied, backstabbed me and conspired against me without my knowledge, and I never said anything about it because I actually cared about her, and was willing to forgive her anything. None of this should have happened the way it did, but as long as everyone understands that I did in fact date her, for 11 months, and that she lied about it and stood silent as I got banned because of her lies and convoluting, I am satisfied.
I want my reputation cleared, regardless of whatever else happens. People should know this. I might not have been a very popular member while I was here, but I was enjoying this community and I liked posting here, and I really don't believe I would have gotten banned were it not for this drama with Losty.
Losty lied to all of you, and she knows it. The only reason she has ever given to me for any of it was she didn't want her reputation ruined. She agrees she could probably get banned and demoted if this information got out, but I don't think that's the case, and am not sure why she would either. I have contacted staff with evidence for what I've said many times in the past, I have offered to explain everything in my attempt to get unbanned as per the rules via Email, and I have only created accounts on this forum to try to get in contact with Losty after a fall-out between us a long time ago. It's been one year, and nothing has changed. So I decided to share with you everything that happened.
I am not a fucking stalker. I am not a hacker. Losty dated me willingly and she lied to this community about it, and destroyed my character in private conversations with other users by lying about me and my affairs. I am not lying. I never even wanted to share this much, even though it's the truth. So take a moment and compare me and her.
If this post gets deleted I will only post it again, maybe with more evidence next time. Let everyone see this, and I will be satisfied. If anyone has any questions, I am open to them.
I am curious what will the community's reaction be to this. Will they act like the staff and prefer to just ignore everything I said and keep with Losty's bullshit, because it's easier that way, or will they actually care if this is true? Assumming you believed me and I could substantiate everything I'm saying, what would your reaction be? Did I deserve to get banned for being compassionate to a girlfriend that betrayed me in such a horrible manner for no other reason than she didn't want to be seen with me publicly, but was perfectly willing to date me in private, or not?
What a delusional putz. Good for a laugh and nothing more.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
