I've lost all my sexual desire, not that I had much to begin with to be honest. My husband is jealous of me because it means that I am not distracted by thoughts of sex all the time and can be more productive. I'm generally thinking about my research when having sex. I don't miss having a sex drive because I never actually enjoyed sex at all to be honest but it would be nice to have an orgasm at least once in my life just to experience it.
Your level of enjoyment of something can closely correlate with your level of hunger for it. So while I would enjoy sex a lot more if I had a sex drive, it would also mean having a hunger or need for it. One balance out the other so at the end of the day it's just easier to do without. In the same way I'd prefer not to wear uncomfortabe shoes all day just to have the moment when I can take them off.
Your level of enjoyment of something can closely correlate with your level of hunger for it. So while I would enjoy sex a lot more if I had a sex drive, it would also mean having a hunger or need for it. One balance out the other so at the end of the day it's just easier to do without. In the same way I'd prefer not to wear uncomfortabe shoes all day just to have the moment when I can take them off.
