(September 30, 2017 at 5:50 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Exactly why do you think it's hot to see 2 girls making out? I know not ALL straight guys are particularly into that. But it seems most are, so for those who are, can you please explain what it is about it that is sexy to you. I am attracted to men and appreciate a good looking guy. But I don't feel the least bit excited about watching 2 dudes kiss. In fact, id rather not.
Why is it different the other way around?
Please explain.
Take your theist hat off for one second because it really is not hard to understand. And despite what you might think, although not the same ratio, some women do like seeing two guys.
The evolutionary explanation is that humans are a variety, and sex isn't just about making babies, but a form of social bonding.
And you don't even have to talk about gays. The same variety of taste exists in sexual acts between heterosexual couples. Some women don't like anal, some do. Some guys don't like munching down there, some do.
The simple explanation is VARIETY.
Religion unfortunately teaches humans to ignore or hate their own desires. And to be fair, that isn't just your religion but worldwide.
Now having said that, what should be more important to you, is safety, not the act, but consent and safety.
Heterosexuals, even in marriage can spread STDs both vaginal and oral. Even without sex involved, you can pick up an STD merely by sitting on an unclean toilet.
Anal and oral count as far as the potential to spread disease, regardless of straight or LGBT. The sexual desire of the individual isn't the issue. The issue is knowing your partner, knowing their health history, and knowing how to reduce the risk.
But the part you forget is that bisexual people exist too. Some individuals like both.
I get that you don't like watching two females. But lesbians would not be into watching a man and a woman. Gay men would not be into watching a man and a woman.
Point is, variety is why. Nobody is asking you to partake in something that doesn't spark your loins, merely saying we are all different.