(October 16, 2017 at 1:49 pm)Khemikal Wrote: Perhaps a more salient example would be that you and your best friends girl got all slutty with each other. At least in that there's enough ambiguity to make it a difficult choice between feeling the need to absolve your own conscience of guilt and the possibility that doing so would needlessly wreck an eight year relationship, because of a kiss.
Who hasn't had their best friends girl or guy hit on them? You're all out partying, maybe she's a little tipsy....shit happens. It signifies nothing. It can be handled with a laugh and a smile "let's not do that again, okay?" - or am I missing something?
Not in my world. Sure, casual hookups are like that. People in a common circle kind of pass each other around. Once you're a boyfriend and/or girlfriend, that shit's off-limits. Even exes are off-limits in my circle. My best friend also has terrible taste in men, so there is that.
That shit just isn't cool. I'd feel utterly disgusted with myself. I'd also punch someone in the face if it was my best friend and significant other. If they can't even handle not getting slutty, how can you trust them with the big stuff?
