RE: What will you do? (Ethical dilemma question)
October 16, 2017 at 3:45 pm
(This post was last modified: October 16, 2017 at 4:03 pm by paulpablo.)
I picked option one, I never really have any serious interest in my friends girlfriends to the extent I'd be deceitful in that way. I would want to make sure my friend doesn't invest more time into an obviously doomed relationship.
I've been in a situation where my best friends girlfriend grabbed me and got right up to my face like she was about to kiss me and I just sort of pulled away. I didn't tell my friend about that. She was high on ecstasy and girls get horny on that, other than thinking she has a pretty nice ass I had no interest at all in my best friends girlfriend at that time. Her personality was wayyy to boisterous and loud. I just considered the grab to be a drugs related accident. To put it bluntly I wasn't bad enough to kiss her back but I didn't give a fuck enough to deal with all the drama of what would happen if I did make a big deal of it and reveal it to my friend.
These days though I would say yes it's important to tell that friend, because even if drugs or drink are involved what if the girl often does drugs or drinks and next time she grabs some other guy he goes along with it. Especially in a situation where they're constantly talking about how in love they are. Then you have the added benefit of the fact that they'll shut the fuck up and stop annoying you, going on about how much they love each other.
I've been in a situation where my best friends girlfriend grabbed me and got right up to my face like she was about to kiss me and I just sort of pulled away. I didn't tell my friend about that. She was high on ecstasy and girls get horny on that, other than thinking she has a pretty nice ass I had no interest at all in my best friends girlfriend at that time. Her personality was wayyy to boisterous and loud. I just considered the grab to be a drugs related accident. To put it bluntly I wasn't bad enough to kiss her back but I didn't give a fuck enough to deal with all the drama of what would happen if I did make a big deal of it and reveal it to my friend.
These days though I would say yes it's important to tell that friend, because even if drugs or drink are involved what if the girl often does drugs or drinks and next time she grabs some other guy he goes along with it. Especially in a situation where they're constantly talking about how in love they are. Then you have the added benefit of the fact that they'll shut the fuck up and stop annoying you, going on about how much they love each other.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
