RE: What will you do? (Ethical dilemma question)
October 16, 2017 at 9:09 pm
(This post was last modified: October 16, 2017 at 9:33 pm by Succubus.)
(October 16, 2017 at 2:16 pm)pool the matey Wrote: Well, say you do tell your best friend about it. Now you're going to be the guy that ended a 8 year long relationship.. . That's not a small thing to bear.
Or your friend don't believe you, cmon the guy has been with this chick for 8 years, he's probably going to think something like you're jealous of their relationship or something....and now you're the guy that's jealous of his best friend doing good...
This sounds remarkably like a badly rewritten conversion story. Lust, guilt, drama and reconciliation? Fuck her and be done with it.
(October 16, 2017 at 2:24 pm)pool the matey Wrote: Yeah, I can agree with that but instead of seeing yourself as a third party when you see yourself as the guy, it just gets a lot more complicated.
Because get this, this chick knew you were best friends she is playing with the heart of your best friend whom you've known since forever... Is there a moral obligation to let him know? Yes.. Should you do it? Probably Not because you don't want to be the guy to ruin the one thing your best friend had going for him..
So the question becomes would you rather him be ignorant and happy or informed but sad
Voila moral dilemma
Voila doesn’t cum into it! You've had designs on this woman for eight years now. Fuck her, or fuck off.
(October 16, 2017 at 2:37 pm)pool the matey Wrote: Lol let's just erase the assault part because that's not doing this discussion any favor 😂
Question boils down to, would you rather your friend be ignorant but happy or informed but sad? I think you're leaning over to the informed but sad side? You do realize although you're being honest here you're still ruining the happiness of your best friend though, right?... What if he goes on a downward spiral and ends up taking his own life or something? Because we're talking about a 8 year+ relationship... It's safe to assume that shit will probably sting
Forget the friend bit. How about the woman that is totally unknown to you? The woman is still someone's wife, daughter, sister, mother; I'm at a loss trying to fathom what your point is? People make mistakes, well yes. So fucking what?
How do 'you' deal with it?
It's amazing 'science' always seems to 'find' whatever it is funded for, and never the oppsite. Drich.
