RE: What will you do? (Ethical dilemma question)
October 17, 2017 at 12:46 am
(This post was last modified: October 17, 2017 at 12:47 am by bennyboy.)
(October 16, 2017 at 10:53 pm)pool the matey Wrote:bennyboy Wrote:I am going to tell my friend to dump the ho. I know, btw, what happens next-- 100% the bitch will claim you hit on her and begged her to keep it a secret, and that she'd never ever do anything like that. Then your friend will tell you to fuck yourself and break off social contact. Then he'll figure out years later she's cheating on him, divorce her, end up a single Dad because it turns out she's been doing heroin again, and you'll take your kids and his to a hockey game some day.
lol This is spot on because it's your word against her and 9 times out of 10 nobody is going to believe you, you'll just cause a lot of drama and lose a lot of friends and for what? In the end you look like an idiot. So it's better to just shut up about it, pretend like nothing happened and make sure you're not left alone with that chick again
No, that's not better. Your friend is entering into a lifelong mating and financial relationship with a whore. Being a good friend means not letting that happen to a friend, even if it might cause you to lose the friendship.
To me, it's not even a dilemma. You have information that might make or break your friend's happiness for a lifetime. You give him the information.
Now, if they are already married, and you found out that while they were dating, she was cheating or something like that-- okay, maybe you bite your tongue.
