(October 29, 2017 at 3:52 pm)Chad32 Wrote:(October 29, 2017 at 3:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Do you have some sort of data to show that people who were virgins when they married are more likely to cheat on their spouse?
I would be curious to see people's answers to this. My opinion is it would make it worse. Because it's just another step closer to getting to the "real thing." It just further desensitizes the idea of having sex with a kid.
No. But I know we have a lot of stories and songs about people cheating because of sex. I presume that most people who are unsatisfied with the sex they get with their partner, is because they didn't have sex before marriage. If they did, they'd know what they were getting into, and would have moved on before marrying.
I don't think it quite works that way. Usually, people who choose by their own will to save sex for marriage, do so because they think sex is precious and they value the commitment of marriage. I don't think these people are more likely to cheat.
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