(October 31, 2017 at 2:42 pm)Whateverist Wrote:(October 29, 2017 at 6:15 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I don't think there's much cultural pressure to save sex for marriage anymore. At least in the West, the percentage of people who don't wait are in the 90's.
Anyway, I found this: https://www.google.com/search?ei=4VL2WeP...XryvUt5PTw
Hey this would be a good new topic for you. Do you think people should wait to find out whether they enjoy sex with the person they wish to marry? I mean what if you got married and then found out it was totally blah?
I think if you have great love and care for the person, and if you align with them in every other way, you won't leave them over just the sex not being great. There's so much more to people than that, and so much more to a relationship and to love.
But with that being said, I can't imagine sex being bad if it's someone you love a lot and have a strong attraction for. If you both care about each other, you should have open communication about sex, about what feels good, what doesn't, and you can work together at being better for each other.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
