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Very Off Topic, but is being a virgin a turnoff for the ladies?
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RE: Very Off Topic, but is being a virgin a turnoff for the ladies?
Are you comfortable with sex with just yourself? Do you feel guilty about it at all? Do you experiment to make it as good as you can? Learning what pleases you is good practice for learning what will please her - not that those will be the same, the learning mind set is what matters. If you approach sex with her with curiosity and a happy expectation for discovery, it'll be fun. Don't worry about seeming worldly or expert enough, in fact don't think about how you appear to her at all. Focus on her, make her comfortable. Create some verbal intimacy before you get to the sex part. Be transparent. With relationships, it will often not work out for one or the other of you for reasons that will become clear as you spend more time together. Let that be a no-fault thing, it is as unpleasant realizing and having to tell her that she won't work out for you as it would be for her to have to tell you that. Be kind.
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RE: Very Off Topic, but is being a virgin a turnoff for the ladies? - by Whateverist - November 11, 2017 at 12:09 pm

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