(November 13, 2017 at 8:52 pm)Hammy Wrote:(November 13, 2017 at 2:28 pm)Joods Wrote: I've actually been bold enough to call a spade a spade before where he's concerned but you know... instead of dealing with the reality of the situation, there was blameshifting and denial all the way around. So much for that honesty, right?
You don't seem to understand what 'dishonesty' is . . . it wouldn't mean that I expressed opinions that you consider to be bullshit. It would mean that I expressed opinions that I do consider to be bullshit. If I express some intention and fail to follow through with it you seem to take that as dishonesty too even when I honestly tried to follow through with it
I do notice that the (few) people who don't recognize me as an honest person don't seem to even grasp the basic concept of honesty.
Actually I have no problem with grasping the basic concept of honesty. I also have no problem with calling out bullshit when I see it, as I already have. Just look at your response to what I said above.
I've been on this earth far longer than you. By your own admittance to me in the past, you are naive and don't have the experience of interaction with many people. So naturally, I can see where you automatically go into the defensive whenever someone says something you don't like. This is the part where you take your almost 30-something self and grow up and stop trying to twist things around because your post above is very dishonest. I mean I really don't care what lies you want to feed other people. But if you can't be straight up honest with yourself, then that's on you and you really shouldn't walk around touting to be one thing when clearly you aren't that thing.
As for the "few" people who don't recognize you as an honest person - I see far less people coming to your defense and having your back. What I see is many people staying silent, not wanting to get involved because, quite frankly, no one feels like dealing with your already fragile feelings. As for me - I think this does need to be addressed - even if I'm one of the few to do it.
I'm not intentionally trying to upset you or hurt you. I'm just keeping it real, like you want from people. Understand that no one - not even yourself - can be so infallible that you are that pure, that honest. To go around here making the claim that you are a champion for honesty is in itself, dishonest. And it's just pure bullshit if you think you are that perfect of a person that you are never dishonest. That's saying you never lie and I know for a fact that that's not true. So how about we cut the bullshit and be real here.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.