(November 15, 2017 at 3:03 am)erealmz Wrote: Okay she's not really my girlfriend we're just kind of talking right now. But I found out that she does go to church and so she is most likely a Christian. I really do like this girl and I want to make it work with her, but she does not know that I'm an atheist. As a true atheist, I stand behind my beliefs 100%. But when it comes to women, that 100% turns into about 23%.
I don't think that admitting my atheism to her will sway her intentions towards me. I'm more likely to screw that up on my own. But none the less I am trying to present an image from the core of my being that is nothing more than myself. I keep it real. So I want to tell her that I don't believe in her God (though not exactly in those words LOL). Should I just make the announcement plain bold and simple? Or should I just wait until it kind of falls into place? Opinions atheists. I trust your feedback more than I've ever trusted the Christians, even if you guys have more sarcasm behind your rhetorics.
I planned to marry a believer, a lady who wasn't fanatic about it, so I decided to get it out in the open. I asked her to make a list of all the things she liked and didn't like about me. When she had done that I told her I was an atheist.
"Now, please look at that list and see if anything is changed by that information."
"Nope, nothing."
We were together twelve years, married ten.
