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Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist?
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RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist?
November 15, 2017 at 4:02 pm
(November 15, 2017 at 3:03 am)erealmz Wrote: Okay she's not really my girlfriend we're just kind of talking right now. But I found out that she does go to church and so she is most likely a Christian. I really do like this girl and I want to make it work with her, but she does not know that I'm an atheist. As a true atheist, I stand behind my beliefs 100%. But when it comes to women, that 100% turns into about 23%.

I don't think that admitting my atheism to her will sway her intentions towards me. I'm more likely to screw that up on my own. But none the less I am trying to present an image from the core of my being that is nothing more than myself. I keep it real. So I want to tell her that I don't believe in her God (though not exactly in those words LOL). Should I just make the announcement plain bold and simple? Or should I just wait until it kind of falls into place? Opinions atheists. I trust your feedback more than I've ever trusted the Christians, even if you guys have more sarcasm behind your rhetorics.

Well, being that you aren't dating yet, just wait till the topic comes up. But it's perhaps something she should know when you make it official. But I wouldn't make a point to mention it yet.
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Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist?

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Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by erealmz - November 15, 2017 at 3:03 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by Cod - November 15, 2017 at 6:01 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by Cod - November 15, 2017 at 6:50 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by Martian Mermaid - November 15, 2017 at 4:02 pm

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