RE: I need advice.
August 19, 2011 at 12:42 am
(This post was last modified: August 19, 2011 at 12:43 am by Violet.)
(August 18, 2011 at 2:39 pm)capnhook Wrote: Hey guys.
My grandmother is very sick and the doctors are saying she may die soon. My very religious mother is telling me she will be at peace, and that she will be with her mother again, her husband and her dog. I don't believe in a god, I don't believe there is any force at work in the world, but the idea of just ceasing to exist, of just fading out of existence is hard for me to accept.
Funny how the truth usually is hard
Quote:I'm worried that Grans death is going to hit me like a ton of bricks, I want to be able to draw on something to counsel myself.
Why will it hit you so hard, and why do you want something to 'counsel' yourself?
Quote:If I was religious like Mum, then I would consult my holy book and speak to a respected figure of that religion, but I don't believe, so I am asking the nearest thing, a community of like minded people.
Good plan. I didn't think I passed, and then I posted pictures on a trans forum, and apparently I pass. And am going to be about the sexiest thing ever
Quote:How do you cope with death?
Same way I cope with everything negative in this world (that is: the world): Laughter. Happy, cheerful, joking, jovial laughter.
Smiling. Kindness. Generosity. Being about the most positive thing in the universe. This song is my heart:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpb9EbmvM5M
Favorite book, and favorite movie
I knew there was a reason I was purple
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
