(December 17, 2017 at 2:03 pm)Hammy Wrote: People dislike how I never shut up and I struggle with dropping subjects. People dislike how pedantic I am. I don't think anyone hates me though. Except for maybe the odd fucktard.
Oh and to follow this up: People dislike how I have almost no filter and my talking is basically thinking aloud.
Some people also find me rather self-absorbed. I always try to be there for people and to validate them, but my way of validating people often involves to give them examples of how I can relate to their experiences because I've had similar experiences myself. The point is to make them feel less alone and just to relate in general, but many people find it that I am shifting the attention from them to me. But that isn't the point of it at all.
