Hmmmm. Sometimes I think the general taboo (which might be getting better for this generation of upper teens) against disabled folks dating and marrying. But then sometimes I think my 15th surgery, which was immediately followed, on an emergency basis, by my 16th and latest (both in 1992). Just as I was looking to be discharged from a spinal tethering surgery, I spring a CSF leak. Very physically painful recovery, and traumatic on my family and just tiring on me.
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan