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This WOULD be a deal breaker for me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship
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This would NOT be a deal breaker for me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship
33.33%
10 33.33%
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Question for the heterosexual men of AF
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RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
I honestly don't know.  It has never come up.  But I think it might depend on what my age was and experience level up to that point.  When you're first finding your way in love and sex you're sort of imprinting at the same time to some degree.  Plus the infatuation/romance side is so much stronger then that I think it might well win the day.

I doubt I'd be interested if I knew at the start but I could be wrong.  I don't have strong 'types' physically and tend to bond on an individual level.

I know I'm not homophobic, being at the philosopher level of experience with it.  (Wasn't for me.)  I'm pretty sure I got all the conditioning that was in the culture when I was growing up.  But civil rights and then women's rights (at least the 60s/70s iteration) was emerging at the same time.  So I deliberately set out to get past the yuck factor and think I mostly have.  Now I'm more at the just-not-doing-it-for-me level.

I didn't vote because I'm not sure.
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RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Antares - March 21, 2018 at 9:12 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Chad32 - March 21, 2018 at 9:28 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by brewer - March 21, 2018 at 9:33 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Lok1 - March 25, 2018 at 6:37 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 21, 2018 at 9:54 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by c172 - March 21, 2018 at 10:02 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by chimp3 - March 21, 2018 at 10:19 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by chimp3 - March 23, 2018 at 6:43 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by c172 - March 21, 2018 at 10:42 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by AFTT47 - March 21, 2018 at 10:53 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by J a c k - March 21, 2018 at 11:28 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by ignoramus - March 21, 2018 at 11:20 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by FFaith - March 22, 2018 at 12:06 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by J a c k - March 22, 2018 at 12:24 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by paulpablo - March 22, 2018 at 12:33 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by paulpablo - March 22, 2018 at 12:57 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 1:15 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Whateverist - March 22, 2018 at 7:37 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 10:13 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by paulpablo - March 23, 2018 at 10:44 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 22, 2018 at 9:22 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 22, 2018 at 9:25 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 22, 2018 at 10:14 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 10:18 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by John V - March 22, 2018 at 1:10 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 2:07 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 22, 2018 at 2:53 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 2:24 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 2:26 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 2:33 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 22, 2018 at 3:59 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by AFTT47 - March 22, 2018 at 6:19 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 9:48 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 9:32 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Brian37 - March 22, 2018 at 5:34 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 9:47 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 9:54 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 22, 2018 at 10:04 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 10:08 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 22, 2018 at 10:30 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 10:33 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 22, 2018 at 10:38 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by J a c k - March 23, 2018 at 8:54 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Sterben - March 22, 2018 at 10:58 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 11:05 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 22, 2018 at 11:14 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 9:49 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by FFaith - March 23, 2018 at 11:50 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:19 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:57 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 12:20 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 12:50 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:32 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Antares - March 23, 2018 at 10:33 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:42 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 11:11 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 11:39 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 11:24 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 10:49 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 11:14 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by henryp - March 23, 2018 at 11:49 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 11:20 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 1:45 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 5:50 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 6:02 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 6:22 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 5:53 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 11:28 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 1:44 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 1:42 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by J a c k - March 23, 2018 at 2:10 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 23, 2018 at 2:42 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 1:47 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 2:55 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - April 17, 2018 at 2:20 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 4:58 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 5:56 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 6:01 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 6:11 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 23, 2018 at 6:14 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by J a c k - March 23, 2018 at 6:21 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 6:21 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Losty - March 23, 2018 at 6:43 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 9:41 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:39 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 23, 2018 at 10:41 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:49 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Shell B - March 23, 2018 at 10:56 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by johan - March 24, 2018 at 10:10 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 26, 2018 at 10:55 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by John V - March 24, 2018 at 12:34 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by John V - March 26, 2018 at 2:31 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 27, 2018 at 3:50 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Rev. Rye - March 27, 2018 at 12:15 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - March 27, 2018 at 6:53 am
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by Amarok - April 17, 2018 at 8:14 pm
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF - by SaStrike - April 18, 2018 at 8:11 am

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