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A question for the straight men
#1
A question for the straight men
Exactly why do you think it's hot to see 2 girls making out? I know not ALL straight guys are particularly into that. But it seems most are, so for those who are, can you please explain what it is about it that is sexy to you. I am attracted to men and appreciate a good looking guy. But I don't feel the least bit excited about watching 2 dudes kiss. In fact, id rather not.
Why is it different the other way around?

Please explain.
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#2
RE: A question for the straight men
I'm not straight, but the answer is obvious to me.
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#3
RE: A question for the straight men
(September 30, 2017 at 5:55 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: I'm not straight, but the answer is obvious to me.

What would you say the answer is?
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#4
RE: A question for the straight men
I think that's hot, but it's not a fetish of mine. I'd much rather see one attractive woman with blue hair or tattoos (in moderation). So as to why I even sort of think it's hot---I have no idea. If they were really unattractive women I don't think I'd like it so maybe it's more that the women themselves are attractive.
#5
RE: A question for the straight men
(September 30, 2017 at 5:57 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: What would you say the answer is?

Men tend to be more aroused by imagery presented before them, in the form of porn or the real thing, whereas women tend to be most aroused by imagery they create in their own minds.

Except in the instance of two women together, that is the one instance where men are most aroused by the imaginative fantasy, because realistically it will never happen to them that they will ever witness or participate. Of course, porn has made it possible that they can witness, so in the end it becomes less of a thrill than something that is just there.

A man enjoying the idea of two women is basically just that, an enjoyment of the idea. After all, men are also easily aroused. A fully clothed woman in tight clothing can cause a man to get an erection, because the penis is what essentially drives the man's sexual arousal.

Women are correct in stating that there is no logic in men enjoying two women being together, because it's the penis that drives the male sexuality more than his insistence that he has complete control over his little buddy. The penis is to the man as the ego is to the personality, except that the penis is much harder to control.
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#6
RE: A question for the straight men
Irl...... No.

Probably as awkward as watching 2 dogs humping out the front of Sunday mass!
As a fantasy, well there's no limits or rules in fantasy land.... Dunno
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#7
RE: A question for the straight men
I assume you mean in videos? Very simple, twice the tits and pussy, no dicks. Several of my GFs were into threesome, so the live action versions were quite interesting.
#8
RE: A question for the straight men
Naked or scantily clad women are hot, no matter what they're doing. That's why some men get aroused by women getting went, or jumping on trampolines. I would think it's more that I'm watching a hot woman making sexual noises, than that hot woman making out with another hot woman. We find lesbianism ok because it's still hot women doing stuff, and culture had made homosexuality so taboo that many men are terrified of any man doing anything sexual that's not directly related to hot women.

Yeah it's a double standard. It's not about homosexuality being bad. It's about sex being a dirty thing, but if sex is going to be involved, then there better be hot women involved.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88GTUXvp-50

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RE: A question for the straight men
(September 30, 2017 at 5:50 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Exactly why do you think it's hot to see 2 girls making out? I know not ALL straight guys are particularly into that. But it seems most are, so for those who are, can you please explain what it is about it that is sexy to you. I am attracted to men and appreciate a good looking guy. But I don't feel the least bit excited about watching 2 dudes kiss. In fact, id rather not.
Why is it different the other way around?

Please explain.

Take your theist hat off for one second because it really is not hard to understand. And despite what you might think, although not the same ratio, some women do like seeing two guys.

The evolutionary explanation is that humans are a variety, and sex isn't just about making babies, but a form of social bonding.

And you don't even have to talk about gays. The same variety of taste exists in sexual acts between heterosexual couples. Some women don't like anal, some do. Some guys don't like munching down there, some do. 

The simple explanation is VARIETY. 

Religion unfortunately teaches humans to ignore or hate their own desires. And to be fair, that isn't just your religion but worldwide.

Now having said that, what should be more important to you, is safety, not the act, but consent and safety. 

Heterosexuals, even in marriage can spread STDs both vaginal and oral. Even without sex involved, you can pick up an STD merely by sitting on an unclean toilet.

Anal and oral count as far as the potential to spread disease, regardless of straight or LGBT. The sexual desire of the individual isn't the issue. The issue is knowing your partner, knowing their health history, and knowing how to reduce the risk.

But the part you forget is that bisexual people exist too. Some individuals like both. 

I get that you don't like watching two females. But lesbians would not be into watching a man and a woman. Gay men would not be into watching a man and a woman.

Point is, variety is why. Nobody is asking you to partake in something that doesn't spark your loins, merely saying we are all different.
#10
RE: A question for the straight men
(September 30, 2017 at 5:50 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Exactly why do you think it's hot to see 2 girls making out? I know not ALL straight guys are particularly into that. But it seems most are, so for those who are, can you please explain what it is about it that is sexy to you. I am attracted to men and appreciate a good looking guy. But I don't feel the least bit excited about watching 2 dudes kiss. In fact, id rather not.
Why is it different the other way around?

Please explain.

Well, let's see, when I'm watching porn, I want to see some action, but I don't feel like looking at a guy's dick, so I enjoy watching two women. I also love the passion.



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