Question for the heterosexual men of AF

[The Industrial Atheist]

Thanks so much! You're one of my favorite members also! You've also been so nice.

You must be easy to be nice to, because nice isn't my default. I try to work on that.

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It must be good for your mental health to feel that way about yourself, to be sure. I prefer realism, but it doesn't do my any favors in that department. As many issues as Hammy has to work out, I do doubt that wanting to be you is one of them, though. I see him admiring a musical, artistic, introspective type, in all honesty. He seems to value those qualities above an abundance of confidence and an outdoor lifestyle.

Thanks again! My impression is that you are nice but assertive with people you think are in the wrong. Also sometimes we can be our own toughest critics.