Question for the heterosexual men of AF

[CapnAwesome]

You're not wrong that he gets hung up on things and is sensitive to criticism. I also think you're not wrong about his willingness or ability to work on that. (Sorry, Hams. I don't mean to talk about you like you're not in the room. I genuinely hope you work on that so you will be happier.) It doesn't look like jealousy to me. I've seen Hammy get this way with people who aren't the way you see yourself. I couldn't even tell you the names of half the people I've had arguments with here. Hams just isn't like that. I hope that changes because there's a lot of happiness to be had.

I hope he changes too! And for the same reasons. I wish nothing but the best for him. I really do. I think he's unhappy and that makes me sad. I also see a lot of my former self in him. Like, he and I are not dissimilar people really. But what can I do? I'm the last person who's advice he'd listen to, even though I successfully transformed my life from one with major social problems to a happy one. So what am I going to do?

You are easy to disagree with and not take things personally. Same with most people on here really.