RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
March 23, 2018 at 2:55 pm
(This post was last modified: March 23, 2018 at 2:57 pm by Shell B.)
(March 23, 2018 at 2:49 pm)Khemikal Wrote: -and chicken nuggets are made out of the flesh of an animal ripped from it's body and rounded up and reconstituted and while most of us wouldn't put a chicken in our mouths chicken nuggets are damned popular. Hell, any of us who eat sausage have probably already put penis in our mouths. We tend to recognize that while something may have once been a penis.....it's not a penis anymore in any other context.
Ghost dick losty..ghost dick
-but it doesn't matter...as people are..in any response that centers on penis..just telling us they don't like dicks...but that's not even remotely what the question is trying to get at. We can walk right around the whole thing and if ghost dick really is the only thing that stands out to someone...that's a completely irrational discomfort or fear, by definition...some kind of phobia...though it may not be transphobia.
Yeah, but if you didn't like pork, you wouldn't eat a pork nugget.
(March 23, 2018 at 2:50 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:(March 23, 2018 at 1:42 pm)Shell B Wrote: You're not wrong that he gets hung up on things and is sensitive to criticism. I also think you're not wrong about his willingness or ability to work on that. (Sorry, Hams. I don't mean to talk about you like you're not in the room. I genuinely hope you work on that so you will be happier.) It doesn't look like jealousy to me. I've seen Hammy get this way with people who aren't the way you see yourself. I couldn't even tell you the names of half the people I've had arguments with here. Hams just isn't like that. I hope that changes because there's a lot of happiness to be had.
I hope he changes too! And for the same reasons. I wish nothing but the best for him. I really do. I think he's unhappy and that makes me sad. I also see a lot of my former self in him. Like, he and I are not dissimilar people really. But what can I do? I'm the last person who's advice he'd listen to, even though I successfully transformed my life from one with major social problems to a happy one. So what am I going to do?
You are easy to disagree with and not take things personally. Same with most people on here really.
Just hope for the best for him. That's what I do. I've Skyped with him, and so has Tibs. He's a nice kid.
