Question for the heterosexual men of AF

[Anomalocaris]

I haven't yet been able to wrap my brain around the need to surgically remove perfectly healthy body parts. I am open to understanding. I just don't yet . If I fell in love with a woman with a penis, the parts wouldn't matter.  I mean totally head over hills in love. The sexual attraction might not be there but then again it might. I've never been in the situation. I certainly wouldn't judge anyone for those types of decisions. We all go through stuff...we all deal with it somehow...and...we move on. Would it be a deal breaker ? I honestly don't know.

There was a case where a woman with perfectly healthy legs were psychologically so uncomfortable with her legs that she repeated attempted to get doctors to amputate them for her. When she could not find any doctor who would consent to amputating perfectly healthy legs, she purchased bagged dry ice from an industrial supply store, plunged her legs into the bagged dry ice, kept it there for several hours so they were literally frozen solid completely through, so they doctors had no choice but to amputate the now completely necrotic legs.